Thanksgiving host refuses to let her influencer cousin, Britt, bring “Instagram food” to dinner after last year’s shaming: ‘I told her if she can’t eat what’s served, she’s welcome to come after dinner’

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  • AITJ for refusing to let my cousin bring her “Instagram food” to Thanksgiving?

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  • I host Thanksgiving every year. I love cooking and spend days preparing everything from scratch. My cousin "Britt" (24F) recently got into health/fitness influencing and now refuses to eat anything that isn't "macro- balanced." Last year, she showed up with her own containers of "high-protein stuffing" and "sugar-free pumpkin pie," then took pictures of herself eating them while everyone else ate my food.
  • She even captioned one, "Some people still eat trash at Thanksgiving lol." This year, I told her if she can't eat what's served, she's welcome to come after dinner for dessert or bring one discreet dish to share.
  • She called me controlling and said I'm "punishing her for being disciplined." Now my aunt's saying I'm excluding her and being dramatic.
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  • But I just don't want another holiday turned into a photo shoot. AITJ?
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  • Cobbler Practical8443 Hosting means respecting the host. Britt isn't "disciplined," she's rude. Bringing your own food is one thing, mocking everyone else for eating normally is another. She can post her chicken and quinoa after dinner.
  • DVDragOnIn Let Britt host. She can prepare enough of her delicious, macro- balanced food for the whole family and then the photo shoot is the point of the gathering and everyone can enjoy being props for her IG instead of trying to have family time while she's doing her IG thing and mocking your efforts.
  • Hyena No4842 She could bring anything she wants and eat it but draw the line at the nasty post!
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  • NTJ Dixieland_Insanity Calling the meal you planned and prepared trash is not ok. She should count herself lucky to be allowed to attend after making an ugly dig like that. That's what crosses the line for me. Tell her and your aunt to enjoy her kale and quinoa or whatever at their place while the rest of the family enjoys a traditional meal at yours.
  • NeeliSilverleaf She's an adult. Don't invite her. If your aunt wants to coddle her bratty behavior, she can host her.
  • HippieGrandma1962 She called your food trash and insulted you on her Instagram. Not to mention turning a family dinner into a photo shoot. She can find somewhere else to eat Thanksgiving dinner. So can her mother if she objects.
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  • Ok-Lunch3448 Calling ur food garbage automatically gets her rejected. She can eat at home.
  • MeButNotMeToo If she brings food, it's a gift to the host, and the can do with it as they wish. She brings it in, straight into the locked chest freezer in the garage.
  • Scruffersdad I had a guest once who called my gravy disgusting and said she'd never eat it because it looked gross. As I said, she was a guest once. I have frequently been served food I would otherwise never eat, but I keep my mouth shut, smile, and say thank you! I'm a guest, unless I'm allergic to it, I'll try it. Except Brussels Sprouts, they're just not edible. But I will take some and hide them under something else. I'm not rude!
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  • ShimmerKoi No cameras or phones at the table. This is a moment to be present with family.

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